The fretting will begin to stop, or at least diminish when we learn how to trust the Lord. And things really start to turn around when you develop the art of delighting yourself in the Lord.
God wants you to be happy and if you are not right now it could be a variety of reasons. Look at those you are attached too. Look at the way you spend your time and your money. You can really only experience delight for yourself in the Lord when you have found a place to live that He is in. Outside of that, you are always going to be looking for the things that tickle your ears and satisfy your taste buds. The Lord can satisfy every need and craving in your life. As you learn how to delight yourself you will find that you are doing the things that you have always wanted to do. We call those things the desires of your heart and it is those things that the Lord not only planted in you but that He wants to extract out of you. All for the benefit of those connected to you. And as you benefit others you too will delight in what is happening to you!
Remember Monday...don't worry....BE HAPPY! Delight yourself!