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Losing Our Identity

2 Corinthians 10:12 We do not dare to classify or compare ourselves with some who commend themselves. When they measure themselves by themselves and compare themselves with themselves, they are not wise. One of the hardest things to do when you are unhappy, bored or disouraged is to not compare your life with someone else's. Some have called it a comparison trap. Oftentimes when we are idle or restless in our own lives, we seem to notice what is going on and into the lives of others. When this happens we lose our own identity. It's not wise to compare yourself to another person or your life to their life.  Don't fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others. You are exactly the way you are supposed to be. Don't let the weakness in you affect the greatness in you. You have been given all that you need to be the success that God desires for you. Settle down and settle in to that best version of you that we all want to see. You are amazing!

God Wants You to Be Happy?

Our God is in the heavens; he does all that he pleases. (Psalm 115:3)
God is pleased. How about you? The other day I saw a post where folks were talking about being happy...some even say God wants you to be happy. Others tell us God wants you to be wealthy. And some will even go further to say He wants you healthy. God is in the heavens and he does what he wants to do. So hat does he want?
It's a bit difficult for me to imagine Jesus hanging on a cross, bleeding to death and being spat on simply so I could be happy. I know that scripture tells me that he desires my health and prosperity. But prosperity to me and the way God sees it may be different. For instance I might think that prosperity if getting that new job with a promotion and God might be orchestrating another opportunity that gives me more time with my family. Perhaps we get too caught up in things like wealth, health and happiness that we miss the real purpose of God for our be holy. God wants us to have a relationship with him. He longs to talk with his children. That's why prayer is so important to each of us. But we don't pray so that we can have things and be happier. God gave us prayer to make us like Jesus. When you have a relationship with Jesus you realize that you want to be like live and walk in a life worthy of being called a Christ follower. He does not hope you are wealthy...he prays for you to be holy!
I can say in my life that when I live in right relationship with Christ, I am happier. But that happiness was not Gods end being reconciled to him was. So how about we stop debating over whether God wants us to always be smiling with a healthy heart and a fat wallet. Most of the time life just does not work out that way. We need help. We need hope. So let's choose to focus our energy on something that all of us as followers of Christ agree on...Jesus is all that we need. When we get Jesus we have what is necessary. Now I can honestly say that I'm happy about that!