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Losing Our Identity

2 Corinthians 10:12 We do not dare to classify or compare ourselves with some who commend themselves. When they measure themselves by themselves and compare themselves with themselves, they are not wise. One of the hardest things to do when you are unhappy, bored or disouraged is to not compare your life with someone else's. Some have called it a comparison trap. Oftentimes when we are idle or restless in our own lives, we seem to notice what is going on and into the lives of others. When this happens we lose our own identity. It's not wise to compare yourself to another person or your life to their life.  Don't fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others. You are exactly the way you are supposed to be. Don't let the weakness in you affect the greatness in you. You have been given all that you need to be the success that God desires for you. Settle down and settle in to that best version of you that we all want to see. You are amazing!


We all have experienced it...even though we may never confess it...deep inside it is our little secret...we are consumed by FOMO...fear of missing out. Sometimes we linger in conversations longer than we should because we are afraid we may miss something. Often we find ourselves in relationships we shouldn't be in because we don't want to miss out on what might be coming.

How do we rid ourselves of FOMO? How about trying to in the moment. When you can enjoy whatever your are in the midst of and whomever is part of your life for the time, you will not have any time for FOMO. I love the Bible and a little scripture in 2 Peter that says we have been given EVERYTHING we need to live a godly life. When I understand that God has set me up for success and that everything I need to live the life He planned for me is already in me, well I remove every last bit of FOMO. Just say NO today...LITM...NOFOMO!