The Beatles sang that All You Need is Love. Tina Turner asked us What Love Had to Do With Anything. Jesus said great love is found when you give your life for another.
Love is not self-seeking. Loves never gives up and doesn't strut or have a swelled head. It does not force itself on others or fly off the handle. It doesn't keep score. It always looks for the best and never looks back.
To find true love, find God. Trust God steadily, hope unswervingly, and love extravagantly.